August 22nd, 2025
Welcome to Music Friday when we highlight songs with jewelry, gemstones or precious metals in the title or lyrics. Today, pop-punk band Every Avenue strikes a raw emotional chord with their 2009 single “Tell Me I’m a Wreck,” a breakup anthem that puts love, commitment and the symbolic weight of a diamond ring at the center of the conflict.

The song’s narrator is caught in a mismatched relationship — she wants permanence, signified by the ultimate token of devotion, a diamond ring, while he wants freedom and space. In one of the song’s most poignant lines, frontman David Ryan Strauchman sings: “But I think we just want different things / I want space, you want a diamond ring / Whatever made you think we were meant to be?”
Here, the diamond ring becomes more than jewelry. It represents eternal love and lifelong commitment — an unshakable bond that the narrator admits he can’t give. Instead, the relationship has unraveled into criticism, taunts and misunderstandings, leaving him feeling like a “wreck.”
Guitarist and songwriter James (Jimmie) Deeghan explained the inspiration behind the track in an interview with Alternative Press.
“‘Tell Me I’m a Wreck’ is what I like to think of as a sort of anthem for not only us, but for everyone out there who has ever been through a bad breakup," he said. "This song takes a stance of, ‘I am who I am and you knew exactly who I was before you got involved.’ It feels amazing to finally say it.”
Deeghan revealed that the song didn’t come together in a traditional studio setting. Instead, he and Strauchman crafted it in the wide-open, echoing expanse of an airplane hangar, fine-tuning every lyric and melody until it struck the perfect emotional balance. What began as a single verse eventually grew into the band’s most recognized track.
“We paid a ridiculous amount of attention to detail on the lyrics, which doesn’t really seem like it from a glance considering how simplistic it all is,” Deeghan said. “The funny thing is that it’s actually tough to write a simple song at times. You want to make sure everyone can make out what it is. I feel like we said exactly what we wanted to say and that everyone that hears this song will find something relatable in this tune.”
Released as the lead single from their second album Picture Perfect, “Tell Me I’m a Wreck” became a fan favorite because of its universal relatability. Who hasn’t been in a relationship where two people simply wanted different things?
Every Avenue, formed in 2003 in Marysville, MI, quickly earned a loyal following with their mix of heartfelt lyrics and punchy pop-punk hooks. The band released three full-length albums on Fearless Records, toured with scene staples like Boys Like Girls and All Time Low, and played the Vans Warped Tour before going on hiatus in 2012.
Though most of the original members have moved on, frontman Strauchman has kept the Every Avenue spirit alive. The band reunited for select shows in 2018 and again in 2023. Every Avenue is also set to perform on October 24 in Nashville.
Please check out the audio clip of Every Avenue performing “Tell Me I’m a Wreck” and sing along with the full lyrics below…
"Tell Me I'm A Wreck"
Written by James Francis Deeghan, David Ryan Strauchman, Timothy Pagnotta and Mitch Allan. Performed by Every Avenue.
I could've been easier on you
I could've been all you held on to
I know I wasn't fair
I tried my best to care
About you
I know I could of been a better man
But I always had to have the upper hand
I'm struggling to see
The better side of me
But I can't take all your jabs and taunts
Your pointing out my every fault
And you wonder why I walked away
When you tell me I'm a wreck
You say that I'm a mess
How could you expect anything less
You latched on to me then cried I strung you along
I told you when you asked
I knew this wouldn't last
At least I could be honest about that
And now you're telling everyone how I only did you wrong
I guess you never knew me at all
Remember on my 21st birthday
You took me where we went on our first date
We stayed till closing time
After four glasses of wine
You started with a pointless argument
Said that I forgot to compliment
The dress you wore that night
That I've seen a thousand times
But I think we just want different things
I want space you want a diamond ring
Whatever made you think we were meant to be?
When you tell me I'm a wreck
You say that I'm a mess
Well how could you expect anything less?
You latched on to me then cried I strung you along
I told you when you asked
I knew this wouldn't last
At least I could be honest about that
And now you're telling everyone how I only did you wrong
I guess you never knew me at all
But still I see you standing there
Waiting around for me to fall
Girl, you must be crazy
Still believing you and me belong
Credit: Screen capture via YouTube / Fearless Records.

The song’s narrator is caught in a mismatched relationship — she wants permanence, signified by the ultimate token of devotion, a diamond ring, while he wants freedom and space. In one of the song’s most poignant lines, frontman David Ryan Strauchman sings: “But I think we just want different things / I want space, you want a diamond ring / Whatever made you think we were meant to be?”
Here, the diamond ring becomes more than jewelry. It represents eternal love and lifelong commitment — an unshakable bond that the narrator admits he can’t give. Instead, the relationship has unraveled into criticism, taunts and misunderstandings, leaving him feeling like a “wreck.”
Guitarist and songwriter James (Jimmie) Deeghan explained the inspiration behind the track in an interview with Alternative Press.
“‘Tell Me I’m a Wreck’ is what I like to think of as a sort of anthem for not only us, but for everyone out there who has ever been through a bad breakup," he said. "This song takes a stance of, ‘I am who I am and you knew exactly who I was before you got involved.’ It feels amazing to finally say it.”
Deeghan revealed that the song didn’t come together in a traditional studio setting. Instead, he and Strauchman crafted it in the wide-open, echoing expanse of an airplane hangar, fine-tuning every lyric and melody until it struck the perfect emotional balance. What began as a single verse eventually grew into the band’s most recognized track.
“We paid a ridiculous amount of attention to detail on the lyrics, which doesn’t really seem like it from a glance considering how simplistic it all is,” Deeghan said. “The funny thing is that it’s actually tough to write a simple song at times. You want to make sure everyone can make out what it is. I feel like we said exactly what we wanted to say and that everyone that hears this song will find something relatable in this tune.”
Released as the lead single from their second album Picture Perfect, “Tell Me I’m a Wreck” became a fan favorite because of its universal relatability. Who hasn’t been in a relationship where two people simply wanted different things?
Every Avenue, formed in 2003 in Marysville, MI, quickly earned a loyal following with their mix of heartfelt lyrics and punchy pop-punk hooks. The band released three full-length albums on Fearless Records, toured with scene staples like Boys Like Girls and All Time Low, and played the Vans Warped Tour before going on hiatus in 2012.
Though most of the original members have moved on, frontman Strauchman has kept the Every Avenue spirit alive. The band reunited for select shows in 2018 and again in 2023. Every Avenue is also set to perform on October 24 in Nashville.
Please check out the audio clip of Every Avenue performing “Tell Me I’m a Wreck” and sing along with the full lyrics below…
"Tell Me I'm A Wreck"
Written by James Francis Deeghan, David Ryan Strauchman, Timothy Pagnotta and Mitch Allan. Performed by Every Avenue.
I could've been easier on you
I could've been all you held on to
I know I wasn't fair
I tried my best to care
About you
I know I could of been a better man
But I always had to have the upper hand
I'm struggling to see
The better side of me
But I can't take all your jabs and taunts
Your pointing out my every fault
And you wonder why I walked away
When you tell me I'm a wreck
You say that I'm a mess
How could you expect anything less
You latched on to me then cried I strung you along
I told you when you asked
I knew this wouldn't last
At least I could be honest about that
And now you're telling everyone how I only did you wrong
I guess you never knew me at all
Remember on my 21st birthday
You took me where we went on our first date
We stayed till closing time
After four glasses of wine
You started with a pointless argument
Said that I forgot to compliment
The dress you wore that night
That I've seen a thousand times
But I think we just want different things
I want space you want a diamond ring
Whatever made you think we were meant to be?
When you tell me I'm a wreck
You say that I'm a mess
Well how could you expect anything less?
You latched on to me then cried I strung you along
I told you when you asked
I knew this wouldn't last
At least I could be honest about that
And now you're telling everyone how I only did you wrong
I guess you never knew me at all
But still I see you standing there
Waiting around for me to fall
Girl, you must be crazy
Still believing you and me belong
Credit: Screen capture via YouTube / Fearless Records.